26 June 2008

And so it goes ...

My marriage is over. It pains me to type that, but I have to. I am choosing to move on because I know I have so much left for me in my life. He moved out this past Saturday. I came home from work to find him and all of his things gone ... again. No, it wasn't as much of a shock as the last time he left, but it was a considerable shock nonetheless. So much so that my parents drove an hour here and hour back to pick me up and take me to their house because I couldn't be alone and I couldn't drive myself. Yes, we'd been having problems, no things weren't perfect, but I didn't think, I still don't think, it meant we shouldn't be together. But, my husband thinks differently, and so he's gone.

So, now I'm looking for a new apartment, am working with a lawyer and a therapist, am trying to figure out the best way to stay in school, and am trying to continue working for a local waterfront trail group all while trying to deal with this deep pain. Please keep me in your thoughts and prayers. I need all the help I can get.

4 comments:

Scott, Jill, Tanner, & Josie. said...

Jenn,

I am so sorry this is happening to you (again). You are ABSOLUTELY in my thoughts and prayers!

Jill

Amanda said...

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Jessica said...

Jenn- I'm sorry to hear about your marriage. I will most definitely keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Ms. K said...

Jenn...
I've been lax on reading... I was going through this at the exact same time. I'm single now, too.
K (she's shrinking's sister)